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9:20am Sunday 22nd August 2010 in
ORGANISERS of a gay pride event in Dorchester are hoping to build on last year’s success.
The county town held its first ever Love Parade last summer that exceeded expectations and the event is being held again on Sunday, August 29.
Gay men, lesbians and bisexual and transgender men and women will take part in a parade from the town pump from 2pm.
There will then be an after party at Café Jagos with a diverse range of music and entertainment on offer.
The inaugural Love Parade saw around 200 people take part and event organisers were delighted with the response they received.
Secretary of the parade committee Charity Jay, a transgender woman from Weymouth, said: “We are hoping for as big a success this year.
“The response from everybody in Dorchester was fantastic. There were lots of people out and about and they seemed to be in awe.
“It was a very good day, the parade went extremely well and the party was incredible.”
The party at Café Jagos will feature acts such as The Dinnerladies, Cookie Monster, Connie Rogers, Miss Hap and the ever-popular Trannioke. Entry is £5 on the door.
Charity said there had been a good response from businesses in the town, many of whom were supporting them.
The committee is again urging local residents to enjoy the day’s events and show their support for the parade – which will have a Rio Carnival theme.
Charity said: “People can expect a colourful parade and we are going to be handing out helium balloons.
“There’s going to be colour, noise and a good atmosphere.”
Committee chairman Chris Kendrick added: “We had some amazing support last year and we are hoping for the same again.
“We’ve been overwhelmed with how much support the town’s given us and the police have also been really good.”
To find out more about the Love Parade and the after party visit www.café-jagos.co.uk.
To sponsor or help with the event call 01305 266056.
Comments(49)
uluru
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2:50pm Sun 22 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:You’re not alone.
OMG looks like this nonsense has become an annual event - can't they move it to Brighton where it will be more at home. And yes, before anyone tells me I know I must be out of touch and arogant - but my views remain the same which I think I'm still entitled to (or am I?).
Techie
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5:17pm Sun 22 Aug 10
uluru
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6:59pm Sun 22 Aug 10
Doughbun1958 wrote:Probably find half of Dorset Police taking part.
Peter Gunn wrote:Wrong ! ! ! 4 of us................. I suppose all the fairies will come tripping up from the bottom of the garden for this event.Dorset Police will need to double patrols in case they start fighting over Manholes in Hig West Street
uluru wrote:That's three of us!
daddykingcool wrote: OMG looks like this nonsense has become an annual event - can't they move it to Brighton where it will be more at home. And yes, before anyone tells me I know I must be out of touch and arogant - but my views remain the same which I think I'm still entitled to (or am I?).You’re not alone.
Techie
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7:25pm Sun 22 Aug 10
staffs
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8:51pm Sun 22 Aug 10
Tinytone
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10:50pm Sun 22 Aug 10
WhyOhWhy
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12:28am Mon 23 Aug 10
Scolopax
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6:54am Mon 23 Aug 10
pd7
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8:43am Mon 23 Aug 10
RobinofLocksley
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8:52am Mon 23 Aug 10
WhyOhWhy wrote:I think it's a tribal / minority group thing, which is why most people in the heterosexual majority can't relate to it.
Still don't get the point of a parade, I'm not homophobic but I just don't get it. Why not just meet up in Jagos? I'm sure someone will enlighten me.
Duckorange
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9:14am Mon 23 Aug 10
Techie wrote:Ha ha haaaaa! You, sir, have just WON THE INTERNET
Of course, the most insecure people often tend to be those that bang on about how normal they are all the time. On the internet.
JANEAUSTEN
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9:31am Mon 23 Aug 10
white43
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11:45am Mon 23 Aug 10
Techie wrote:You see, with that logic, if you have to have a parade to celebrate diversity/LGBT, then presumably that makes all LGBT insecure? Nonsense, so really, a moot comment.
Of course, the most insecure people often tend to be those that bang on about how normal they are all the time. On the internet.
snowleopard
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6:30pm Mon 23 Aug 10
CoogarUK.com
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7:11pm Mon 23 Aug 10
bizzylizzy
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9:23pm Mon 23 Aug 10
Nickzz
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8:56pm Tue 24 Aug 10
Nickzz
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9:08pm Tue 24 Aug 10
uluru wrote:Whoa..... 'nonsense' that is not in my vocab.. seriously what made you so misarable... Come on pop on down I'll buy you a brandy.. (by the way hello to all of the nice people in the Dorchester area - I do miss you very much) :)
daddykingcool wrote: OMG looks like this nonsense has become an annual event - can't they move it to Brighton where it will be more at home. And yes, before anyone tells me I know I must be out of touch and arogant - but my views remain the same which I think I'm still entitled to (or am I?).You’re not alone.
green4dave
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10:35pm Tue 24 Aug 10
uluru wrote:All you haters need to crawl back under the rock you came from. What do you have against LOVE? Your outdated views on homosexuality actually end up in violence against human beings. Hate is taught and learned. STOP TEACHING IT!
daddykingcool wrote:You’re not alone.
OMG looks like this nonsense has become an annual event - can't they move it to Brighton where it will be more at home. And yes, before anyone tells me I know I must be out of touch and arogant - but my views remain the same which I think I'm still entitled to (or am I?).
daddykingcool
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11:22am Wed 25 Aug 10
Richie T
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12:02pm Wed 25 Aug 10
Nickzz
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6:05pm Wed 25 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.
daddykingcool
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9:57pm Wed 25 Aug 10
Nickzz wrote:Putting your thing up another mans back door is not natural - full stop. Like I said I accept that this behaviour goes on (and unfortunetly it's now legal) but children need to know that it's not natural - if they are born that way inclined then fair enough but they should not be tempted by seeing it on TV and parades etc. This is my view and i'm entitled to it and as things currenly stand free to express it - it's no different than if you don't like drunks or druggies - everyone entiled to their opinion. Aanyway many gays would hate it if everyone accepted it as then they could not get off on being different.
daddykingcool wrote: I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
Nickzz
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11:39pm Wed 25 Aug 10
Nickzz
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11:50pm Wed 25 Aug 10
Slim Boi Phat
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12:18am Thu 26 Aug 10
sparklefairydust
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2:44am Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:hahahahahahaha this is the daftest comment i have heard in years, the cilitbang ad has been featured loads on the tv for years yet ive never seen a kid start cleaning as a result,if cleaning urges are not contagious why on earth would falling in love with a member of the same sex be???
Nickzz wrote:Putting your thing up another mans back door is not natural - full stop. Like I said I accept that this behaviour goes on (and unfortunetly it's now legal) but children need to know that it's not natural - if they are born that way inclined then fair enough but they should not be tempted by seeing it on TV and parades etc. This is my view and i'm entitled to it and as things currenly stand free to express it - it's no different than if you don't like drunks or druggies - everyone entiled to their opinion. Aanyway many gays would hate it if everyone accepted it as then they could not get off on being different.daddykingcool wrote: I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
GarethE
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8:27am Thu 26 Aug 10
uluru wrote:Not so much arrogant, more ignorant of the fact I’d say that there are many aspects to life, some of which you may not always agree with but you can’t stop people being people.
daddykingcool wrote: OMG looks like this nonsense has become an annual event - can't they move it to Brighton where it will be more at home. And yes, before anyone tells me I know I must be out of touch and arogant - but my views remain the same which I think I'm still entitled to (or am I?).You’re not alone.
GarethE
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8:30am Thu 26 Aug 10
CoogarUK.com wrote:Don’t forget that ‘normal’ people make lesbians, gay, bisexual and transgendered people. Thanks for all your efforts, we appreciate your valued contribution to our diverse community.
Seems my earlier comment has been removed. Am I no longer entitled to feel insulted by being considered 'normal'? I may not be gay but I'm not homophobic either!
GarethE
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8:36am Thu 26 Aug 10
WhyOhWhy wrote:On that logic is it wrong for Rio to host Carnival or for the Notting Hill Festival to go on year after year? Both events celebrate diversity. Good luck everyone taking part and everyone supporting it, I hope that the day is a massive success.
Still don't get the point of a parade, I'm not homophobic but I just don't get it. Why not just meet up in Jagos? I'm sure someone will enlighten me.
GarethE
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8:41am Thu 26 Aug 10
bizzylizzy wrote:Down with Morris dancers as well eh? Men dressing up in silly costumes and knocking sticks together. What is all that nonsense about.
I don't understand why anyone has to have a parade, whatever their sexual affiliation. To me its just exhibitionism and an excuse to get dressed up. But then I don't like fancy dress parties either. I must just be plain boring!
GarethE
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8:47am Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:Daddykingcool I wouldn’t worry about the event being an ‘advertisment to become gay’, you can’t make someone gay or straight. While you think of this, remember that it takes two heterosexuals to make one homosexual.
I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.
GarethE
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8:53am Thu 26 Aug 10
Nickzz wrote:Daddykingcool I accept your behaviour, I may not like it but I accept you. I tolerate you because I am a tolerant person.
daddykingcool wrote: I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
GarethE
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8:57am Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:Daddykingcool what makes you think that I want heterosexuality ‘rubbed in my face?’
I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.
ClaudiaD
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9:03am Thu 26 Aug 10
GarethE
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9:16am Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool
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9:42am Thu 26 Aug 10
ClaudiaD wrote:Yes Please.
@daddykingcool... What an utterly ridiculous post... Who are you to say what behaviour between consenting adults is 'natural' and what is not? And how are children going to learn about it simply by watching the parade? Do you really think men will be 'at it' with each other while parading through the town? And just where does your unhealthy obsession with gay sex come from, anyway? Being gay isn't just about sex, you know, just as in the same way as being straight isn't. As for gays 'getting off' on being different, remember that it was not so long ago that gays had to live their lives in the shadows and try to blend in with society because of the very real threat to their lives and careers that being exposed as gay could bring - Alan Turing being a prime example. Would you really want to go back to those days? This is what we are celebrating - that we no longer have to hide, and that society (even Dorchester) is becoming more diverse and accepting of us and that we have the right to live our lives as we see fit. As the recent poster campaign said: 'some people are gay - get over it'.
weymouthuk
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2:45pm Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool
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5:09pm Thu 26 Aug 10
weymouthuk wrote:Well said - if more took your approach I think people would be more accepting.
Oh come on, don't start on the Morris dancers! ;-) I grew up in Dorchester and never dealt with my own sexuality until the age of 21 when I'd moved away for fear of the response such as has been posted above. Regardless, people are entitled to there opinion either way. Personally, I've never been a fan of pride marches because invariably they have a tendency to force themselves onto peoples conciousness. It's all well and good arguing that we have a right to be heard etc but so do the people who are against it. Their views are as valid as those opposite. Whilst I appreciate people's desire to have such events and respect their want to do so, I have equal respect, as a Gay man for those who are against them. Personally, I struggle to see where, in my adult life my sexuality has been a source of oppression for me. I don't push it in other peoples faces by camping it up, don't work it into almost every conversation like some do and just live my life as a person, not defined by being straight or gay, just a human being who respects the views on all sides. So, whilst some views on here may be outdated or small minded to some, bear in mind that when they object to your views, you still feel your points are equally valid as do they. A bit of respect for all on both sides is all that's needed to move forward. Not total acceptance, just respect for others.
Tike
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5:58pm Thu 26 Aug 10
GarethE wrote:This is getting out of hand - leave Morris dancers alone, they are too often the unchallenged victims of discrimination and hatred.
bizzylizzy wrote: I don't understand why anyone has to have a parade, whatever their sexual affiliation. To me its just exhibitionism and an excuse to get dressed up. But then I don't like fancy dress parties either. I must just be plain boring!Down with Morris dancers as well eh? Men dressing up in silly costumes and knocking sticks together. What is all that nonsense about.
GarethE
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6:14pm Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:Daddykingcool has stated that “Putting your thing up another mans back door is not natural - full stop”. Right, so that caters for some gay and bisexual men but what of the rest? Care to hypothesise upon what is natural or not for lesbians and transgender women?
Nickzz wrote:Putting your thing up another mans back door is not natural - full stop. Like I said I accept that this behaviour goes on (and unfortunetly it's now legal) but children need to know that it's not natural - if they are born that way inclined then fair enough but they should not be tempted by seeing it on TV and parades etc. This is my view and i'm entitled to it and as things currenly stand free to express it - it's no different than if you don't like drunks or druggies - everyone entiled to their opinion. Aanyway many gays would hate it if everyone accepted it as then they could not get off on being different.daddykingcool wrote: I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
GarethE
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6:17pm Thu 26 Aug 10
GarethE
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6:25pm Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:Utterly ironic that daddykingcool has stated “Well said - if more took your approach I think people would be more accepting” when daddykingcool doesn’t appear to accept anything other than his own definition of what constitutes “normal”.
weymouthuk wrote: Oh come on, don't start on the Morris dancers! ;-) I grew up in Dorchester and never dealt with my own sexuality until the age of 21 when I'd moved away for fear of the response such as has been posted above. Regardless, people are entitled to there opinion either way. Personally, I've never been a fan of pride marches because invariably they have a tendency to force themselves onto peoples conciousness. It's all well and good arguing that we have a right to be heard etc but so do the people who are against it. Their views are as valid as those opposite. Whilst I appreciate people's desire to have such events and respect their want to do so, I have equal respect, as a Gay man for those who are against them. Personally, I struggle to see where, in my adult life my sexuality has been a source of oppression for me. I don't push it in other peoples faces by camping it up, don't work it into almost every conversation like some do and just live my life as a person, not defined by being straight or gay, just a human being who respects the views on all sides. So, whilst some views on here may be outdated or small minded to some, bear in mind that when they object to your views, you still feel your points are equally valid as do they. A bit of respect for all on both sides is all that's needed to move forward. Not total acceptance, just respect for others.Well said - if more took your approach I think people would be more accepting.
Richie T
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8:24pm Thu 26 Aug 10
Nickzz
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8:34pm Thu 26 Aug 10
Nickzz
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8:36pm Thu 26 Aug 10
daddykingcool
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4:52pm Fri 27 Aug 10
sparklefairydust wrote:I'm not trying to insight any violance towards anyone and was using drunks and druggies as an example to being able to say if you don't like something you should be free to say so - I thought insigting vionace was a crime but expressing your opinion was not - very confusing - if by saying I do not like gay activity being promoted (i.e. parades) i'm breaking the law then I do appologise as I'm a law abiding citizan. It's not really a free country if when deep down I feel something is wrong and I can't say so.
daddykingcool wrote:hahahahahahaha this is the daftest comment i have heard in years, the cilitbang ad has been featured loads on the tv for years yet ive never seen a kid start cleaning as a result,if cleaning urges are not contagious why on earth would falling in love with a member of the same sex be??? your totally right you are entitled to your own views but you may want to actually step back and concider them because actually in the uk your not free to express them if they contain homophobic views, Its called a hate crime and is against the law in the uk (compareing none straight people to druggies is just a tad hatefull as well as making you sound like a compleate idiot with about as much intellegence as a three toed sloth in a drug induced coma) im straight but say bring on the parade any reason to buy new shoes is a good reason to meNickzz wrote:Putting your thing up another mans back door is not natural - full stop. Like I said I accept that this behaviour goes on (and unfortunetly it's now legal) but children need to know that it's not natural - if they are born that way inclined then fair enough but they should not be tempted by seeing it on TV and parades etc. This is my view and i'm entitled to it and as things currenly stand free to express it - it's no different than if you don't like drunks or druggies - everyone entiled to their opinion. Aanyway many gays would hate it if everyone accepted it as then they could not get off on being different.daddykingcool wrote: I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
Nickzz
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9:23pm Fri 27 Aug 10
daddykingcool wrote:Yes I agree you can state your free opinion, however there is a sensible opinion and there is being a hypocrite, in which you were inciting for being gay to remain illegal which would be against freedom aswell! Freedom should be classed as one subject not split to cater for one mind. You just cannot use freedom of speech excuse to try and limit one's freedom, it is not logic and common sense. But please is you do not agree with the event we will be doing on sunday, just say 'I don't agree with it' and walk away, do not go into detail why you don't agree with it, as people really don't want to know. Additionally I would like to make both the general public and the Dorset Echo to know this is not just a gay pride, this is an event for everybody, from all walks of life, all religion, all spirituality, all races and creed to come together as one... under the human race, not designated to one purpose. Also the parade is just for abit of fun, like st patricks day parades, or local carnival parades!! If you would like to come, just to see my point, you are still welcome, I do not go against anyone, I am a neutral being, and always will!!! & I can understand why you don't like it, but you really don't need to state every detail... nobody wants to know...
sparklefairydust wrote:I'm not trying to insight any violance towards anyone and was using drunks and druggies as an example to being able to say if you don't like something you should be free to say so - I thought insigting vionace was a crime but expressing your opinion was not - very confusing - if by saying I do not like gay activity being promoted (i.e. parades) i'm breaking the law then I do appologise as I'm a law abiding citizan. It's not really a free country if when deep down I feel something is wrong and I can't say so.
daddykingcool wrote:hahahahahahaha this is the daftest comment i have heard in years, the cilitbang ad has been featured loads on the tv for years yet ive never seen a kid start cleaning as a result,if cleaning urges are not contagious why on earth would falling in love with a member of the same sex be??? your totally right you are entitled to your own views but you may want to actually step back and concider them because actually in the uk your not free to express them if they contain homophobic views, Its called a hate crime and is against the law in the uk (compareing none straight people to druggies is just a tad hatefull as well as making you sound like a compleate idiot with about as much intellegence as a three toed sloth in a drug induced coma) im straight but say bring on the parade any reason to buy new shoes is a good reason to meNickzz wrote:Putting your thing up another mans back door is not natural - full stop. Like I said I accept that this behaviour goes on (and unfortunetly it's now legal) but children need to know that it's not natural - if they are born that way inclined then fair enough but they should not be tempted by seeing it on TV and parades etc. This is my view and i'm entitled to it and as things currenly stand free to express it - it's no different than if you don't like drunks or druggies - everyone entiled to their opinion. Aanyway many gays would hate it if everyone accepted it as then they could not get off on being different.daddykingcool wrote: I don't have anyhting against genuine love. I can accept that this sort of behaviour goes on - I just don't want it rubbed in my face - it's not natural whatever anyone says - you give a little i.e. making it legal and they just want more and more rights and have to have stupid parades - it's like an advertisment to become gay which we should not be promoting for many reasons.Not 'Natural' - you don't have the authority to say whats natural or not, that is up to the universe to decide... and thats a fact. And p.s its not rubbed in your face... unless you actually go to the event, so stay away if it offends you
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Mabu says...
11:07am Sun 22 Aug 10