Today is our last article about learning disabilities, at least for now. It’s about the Friendship Club, because it’s so important to us. We’ll then be back to our usual random columns!

What’s so great about the Friendship Club is that it’s improved our lives in ways we could never dream of.

Like being able to make and meet up regularly with friends, which many people take for granted. Something we simply could not have done without the club.  

It’s supported loads of us to find our voices and given us lots more confidence. For me (Adam) I feel like a real man now, with my own life, no longer centred around my Mum’s. It’s also helped us stop relying on other people, as we have learnt to do more things for ourselves.

What’s more, it’s a springboard which leads to other things. Like for us, to write this column. Many club activities improve our physical health and overall our lives are way better.  

The thing we and our friends worry about, is how we’d manage if the club stopped. Around 400 people with learning disabilities regularly attend and many help organise events. The club is run by two part-time staff with support from volunteers. But we rely entirely on grants, subs and donations to keep going.

If it stopped, I (Adam) really fear I would just shut down and stay home alone in my room comfort eating, like I used to. I (William) worry I might end up alone again and drinking too much in the pub.

We love our social life, and want to keep it, but need support to do that. Right now we are working hard to help raise funds. If you know anyone who can help, we’d love to hear from you!

Adam and William are supported in their editing by The Friendship Club– a project for adults with learning disabilities, run by People First Dorset.